There is the phenomenon going on right now here on Tumblr. One where
people are being referred to as stalkers and/or creepers by people who
do not know them. Whether you like it or not you are forming your
opinions of some people based on hearsay and rumors. Sure some people
may be doing the things that you are saying which I am not saying is
right BUT it is not up to you to chastise anyone. I am not saying anyone
is right or wrong. You have a right to your opinion and the right to
say what you will but, you are no better when throwing accusations
around when you do not know the story.
Tom Hiddleston is a grown man. If people were
legitimately making him uncomfortable there are many things that he
could do to remedy the whole situation. It is very discouraging that
instead of understanding that he does not need you nor I to stick up for
him people want to become his voice. He has one.. He also knows how to
use it. I would love to be able to say he has fans and he appreciates
his fans and so forth but the fact of the matter is I am not going to
speak for him.
I am also not speaking for the people that are being called these
names. I am speaking as someone who has watched from the sidelines when
people are being chastised for things that are none of anyone’s concern.
People posting that they are glad this isn’t happening in their
country. That people should not be doing this and so forth. Well, I hate
to break it to all of you but there are people in every country all
over the world that do things that others would label
as crazy or creepy or even as a stalker.Just because it is not happening
there right now does not mean it has not ever nor will not ever. It
just means that to this point you know of nothing.
Until there comes a time when someone specifically asks people not to
wait outside to try and catch a glimpse of him then really it
isn’t stalking by definition. Sure it may be obsessive but not
stalking. As for checking into the hotel he is in. You know if that is
what people want to do with their money no one said that they can not
stay at the same hotel. I AM NOT SAYING IT IS RIGHT. But, I am only
saying that it is not up to anyone else to raise such a stink about it.
Making someone feel guilty for meeting him is not fair to anyone. It
sounds like jealousy. I personally, have no opinion either way on the
subject. I do however, have an opinion on others throwing accusations
around. It is wrong. You may disagree with what is going on but, there
is a proper and improper way to deal with such situations. Hate mail is
not proper and kinda crazy.
Each and everyday there are things going on to be upset and
opinionated about. Things that have more of an impact on the world than
eight or nine girls sitting outside of a hotel. Only Lovers Left Alive
will be done filming this week and Detroit can go back to normal.
Everyone will turn their attention to fans in other places doing the so
called crazy, creepy, and stalking things that people
here are being accused of. It happens everywhere, everyday, and all over
the world. This is not just some sort phenomenon specific to Detroit or
Michigan or USA.
This is just my opinion. Hate it or not it does not concern me. Think
me wrong or right it has no effect. Just like what I am saying will
likely have no effect on you. I figured though that if everyone else was
going to be so opinionated I was going to put my thoughts in.
Questions to me will be addressed. Comments in the form of questions will be addressed also.
Have a wonderful day.
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